One must learn to live. I practice every day. My biggest obstacle is I don't know who I am. I grope blindly. If anyone ever loves me as I am, I may dare at last to look at myself. For me, that possibility is fairly remote.
Do you have anything in common? No. Is she intelligent? No. Then she understand you? No. Then the only thing she can give you is sex. The only unbearable thing is nothing is unbearable.